"I dated her twice and kiss her more than wance i love her if you dont give her the phone i will come from colorado and get you"I've never seen anyone misspell "once" as "wance." At this point I was thinking "this has got to be some kind of prank." The guy's name was supposedly "Tristin" which looks like a girl's name to me... and then he actually called rather than just text-messaging, and he sounded a bit like a girl doing a fake guy voice, especially at first. I don't know if this guy just had a weird voice or if this was some kind of prank, but either way after I explained that I had no idea who he was, I bought the phone from Wal-Mart a little over a month ago (and so it couldn't have randomly been someone else's lost phone!), and so on the call was over. Really strange.
Did a lot of walking around Buena Vista today. And some jogging, actually managed to get over a mile (almost 1.5 miles!) in just three days, and that's with my knees still hurting and me not even really trying on one of those days. Nowhere near the 3.5 I was supposed to have by the end of this week, but definitely better than the zero I had last week when my knees were still really bad.
Also, for some reason every time I talk to certain people about anything dating-related, Kaitlyn always gets mentioned. Usually by other girls suggesting that I ask her out (and of course, previously there was the time when they were trying to get me to ask her to dance, and before that someone else mentioned her when talking about the possibility of me going to the dance with a girl.) But... I'm pretty sure she likes some other guy, she was literally talking about how much she liked him right in front of me the other day. Not talking to me exactly, I was just kind of sitting nearby when she happened to be saying all that to someone else... but I was definitely close enough to overhear it all. And today I finally asked one of the girls who continuously suggests that I ask Kaitlyn out, and apparently she just has a feeling that Kaitlyn likes me. I would've asked if this was a "actually backed up by stuff she might have said" feeling or just a feeling-feeling, but I didn't really have time. Now I'm just kind of confused and it's starting to look like a repeat of that one time in community college when a girl liked me, then lost interest before I asked her out (with one of her friends pestering me to ask her out right up to the end.) There's even other similarities beyond that... main difference is that Kaitlyn is probably a lot less crazy.
I guess I probably will attempt to ask her out anyway. I mean, I do like her, and I was kinda thinking of asking her out already (though the overheard conversation a few days ago did discourage me from that a bit), and I've already gotten really close to that (between asking her for her phone number, saying that I'd walk with her if she wanted to go walking in Buena Vista to see what's around sometime, and so on) but... I'm a bit worried about just how horribly wrong it could go, moreso than with either of the other two girls I'm thinking about asking out. Might just be me being a little paranoid, but... I dunno.
EDIT: ...and now my "who am I going to try asking out first"-o-meter has been shifted back in another direction once again. At least it's good that I have more than one person in mind, in case whoever I ask first says no, I guess?
And one random hint to any other guys who might just be in a similar situation: don't ask guys for dating advice. Ever. If a guy attempts to give you advice about girls, it will either be stupidly obvious ("don't walk up and say 'hey baby'" and other similar things that you probably already know if you're even remotely intelligent) or absolute nonsense. Pretty much all of the advice I've gotten from girls on this (with a few exceptions occasionally) generally makes sense, while pretty much everything that a guy has butted in with (and yeah, butted in would be the right word since I already knew that guys don't know this stuff at all and I would have to be pretty stupid to actually ask them for advice) has been a combination of the obvious and total BS. Heck, one of the guys spouting the BS even admitted that he didn't have much luck with girls either... yet somehow they spread it anyway.
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